Paul & Jenny Speed

helping couples and individuals do

“whatever it takes” to succeed

in marriage and life!

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WIT Couple's Intensive

This Couple’s Intensive is not a typical Christian marriage conference. It is an intensive weekend that deals with root causes that are destroying your marriage. You will be given the tools you need to be able to do “whatever it takes” to succeed in your marriage.  You will leave with a new oneness and purpose for your marriage.
“What God did in our marriage at the intensive is nothing short of a miracle. For the first time in years, we have hope for the future and the tools to do it!”– Couple from TN

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Ladies 4 Days 2 HOPE

During these powerful 4 day weekends, women are led through the steps of how to release those who have wounded them and truly walk in forgiveness. Many times when women cannot “get past” the pain, it is because they have unresolved hurts or fears that are blocking them. The goal of the weekend is to identify what is preventing them from moving forward and finding healing.

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Men's 4 Days 2 FREEDOM

4 Days 2 Freedom Men’s Weekend is designed to help men break free from pornography addictions, sexual addictions, or substance addictions, as well as learn to walk in freedom from past failures. Don’t let defeat define your life anymore. Come and experience a Life Changing Weekend!

“Wow – what an amazing weekend. I don’t think I have ever had my thinking transformed so much in such a short space of time, believing that this new thinking will lead to a transformed life.”
– An attendee

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WIT ALIVE for singles

WIT ALIVE Singles is a life-changing, world-altering weekend! The goal of WIT ALIVE is to help you identify the areas of your life that need God’s wisdom and understanding applied to them. Not only will it prepare you for marriage, but it will prepare you for Life! You, by the grace of God, will never be the same!

“This weekend was way more than I expected. God showed me so much about how to identify and break the chains of bondage and lies. It was a HUGE encouragement to meet other singles my age who share the same beliefs and values regarding Christ and relationships!” – An attendee

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Latest Blog Posts

The Darkness of Shame

The Darkness of Shame

by | Jul 6, 2026

"The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame." Genesis 2:25 Before sin entered the world, Adam and Eve stood before God and each other completely exposed and unashamed. There were no masks, no fear, and no hiding. But everything changed in Genesis 3....

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Taking Responsibility: How to Deal with Moral Failure

Taking Responsibility: How to Deal with Moral Failure

by | Mar 4, 2017

The following information is a brief summary of some of the steps that a man should take to bring hidden things to the light. At a 4 Days 2 Freedom or Whatever It Takes Marriage Intensive, this is explained in detail and expounded upon for hours along with other steps...

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Three Pitfalls Every Dad Should Avoid – Part 3

Three Pitfalls Every Dad Should Avoid – Part 3

by | Feb 21, 2017

Three Pitfalls Every Dad Should Avoid: (Part 3) How To Talk to Your Kids About Sexuality (Click here to read Part 1 and Part 2.) Talking about sexuality with our kids can be very challenging. For this blog, I’m not speaking about “the birds and the bees” or a how to...

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4 Days 2 Freedom

Words can’t describe how much I appreciate what you and the team did for me this weekend. My journey isn’t complete and I still have some walls to break down but one thing I know for sure, on Sunday, the old Sonny died!! God is now making things new.

Sonny – Florida

4 Days 2 Hope

After struggling for an entire year trying to find forgiveness and hope, during this weekend I realized it was my own sin and my past that was blocking me. My marriage has finally been reconciled and restored for His glory.

Krista – Montana

WIT ALIVE

My parent’s marriage was on the verge of disaster. Now, they love each other more than ever.  After seeing my dad completely break and change, I began searching for the powerful God who I had so long resented. I accepted Him after coming clean as well.  I am a different man because of it. Josh – Texas

WIT Couples Intensive

Can’t tell you the drastic difference in my marriage, something only God could do. Just an awesome blessing.

Bobby – Florida

4 Days 2 Freedom

This weekend has shown me so many things that be been missing in may life. I must and will through Christ overcome this struggle!! This weekend has provided me with most importantly…HOPE! Hope that I can be free.

Jerry – Canada

4 Days 2 Hope

The 4 Days 2 Hope weekend made me stop thinking and focusing on every hurt I had endured; in its place it helped me start thinking about every hurt I had overcome. It helped me get from a victim mentality of unforgiveness, to a mentality of victory OVER the unforgiveness that had been weighing down on my soul. God did this for me and it only took Him four days!

Melissa – Georgia

WIT ALIVE

WIT Alive has given me the ability to begin to recognize the thought processes that have brought bondage in my life. I am beginning to understand the train of thoughts that have lead me to overeating all these years.

 

Marie – New York

 

WIT Couples Intensive

Can’t tell you the drastic difference in my marriage, something only God could do. Just an awesome blessing.

Bobby – Florida

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